Now that your baby has arrived, you are probably overwhelmed with all of your new “mommy” responsibilities. Feeding your tiny newborn is practically a full-time job, and you can’t even count how many times you stop to change a diaper each day. However, it’s essential that you take time out of each day to truly bond with your baby. The following tips will help you easily establish a special bond between you and your child.
Encourage Skin-to-Skin Cuddle Sessions
If your baby is fussy or you simply want to be near your child, take off your shirt and take off your baby’s clothes. Simply place your baby on your belly or chest, and soak in the beauty of skin-to-skin contact. This is a soothing act not only for your child, but also for you. It will help you get to know one another on an intimate level, and is one of the best ways to calm a crying baby.
Look Into Your Baby’s Eyes and Interact With Your Baby
Your newborn will spend much of the day sleeping, but once your baby’s eyes are open make it a point to interact with your little one. Look deep into your baby’s eyes, and talk to them about everything going on around you. These conversations are the first building blocks of language skills, and they also let your baby know that you are their caretaker. You’ll feel connected to your baby as you stare into those beautiful eyes and tell your child all about the world.
Sing Your Baby a Special Song
Whether you are rocking your baby to sleep, trying to calm your infant down or simply wanting to spend a special moment with your newborn… start singing a song. You might choose a classic lullaby, a rock-and-roll tune or create your own masterpiece. No matter what choice you make, your baby is sure to love the sound of your soft, soothing voice.
Give Your Baby a Massage
A gentle massage is a wonderful way to soothe your newborn child, but it also helps to develop your relationship with your baby. The other amazing fact about infant massage is that it can actually help mothers who are dealing with postpartum depression. Parents can learn the right technique by taking a class at their local hospital.
Wear Your Baby in a Sling or Wrap
Keeping your baby close to your body in a sling or wrap allows you to have as much contact as possible with your child, while still allowing you to complete your daily tasks. The more physical contact you have with your baby and the more your baby hears your voice, the easier it will be for both of you to bond.
As a new mom, don’t fret if you don’t feel an instant and immediate bond with your baby. Parent and baby bonding can take time, and it doesn’t always happen the moment that the baby is born. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, and simply take the time you need to connect with your new little bundle of joy. Before you know it, you’ll be sharing an unbreakable bond with your child that will last for an eternity.
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Article Resources
http://www.babycenter.com/baby-bonding
http://www.webmd.com/parenting/baby/forming-a-bond-with-your-baby-why-it-isnt-always-immediate?page=2